It's been a while since being irritated in the NPD rooms but here it is again. So you were in recovery forums listening to people affects by Ns. Now you feel as if it's your place to come here and say we are what we are. That your thoughts are the true definitions of what is what. Your preaching to the wrong crowd bud. It's fine and dandy to have your own opinions as all humans are but to try and say that blue is actually pink is what I have an issue with. You were obviously one who has been hurt or misused by a person with narcissistic tendencies and now feel that is is your right to guide "us" all through the steps in what life really is. I too went to other rooms and tried to help, I didn't tell people what they were or weren't, just tried to give one with NPD perspective. Instead I was the one getting harassed and told who they thought I was. Instead of the normal back and forth I just realized I only belong here, in a matter of sharing my thoughts, jokes or anything I wanted to. Like most here, this room is made up of many none. Ones who typically ask questions or share experiences to get some type of answer from one who understands a little better than most. I have no problem with these types, in fact I think it helps myself being able to open up and share my thoughts. Not to seek what a N typically does rather help to help myself in seeing things in a way that is more acceptable to the masses. You my friend come here with opposite intentions. Sure your writings show that you are book smart. That YOUR memory allows you to memorize the things you read and were told. After that it's all lost. Speaking for myself I would love to see you gone from here only because your arrogance really annoys me now. Go back to the little cry babies you felt so empowered by and tell them what you think, I'm sure they would all love your insight. Your insight here isn't getting you anywhere except people not liking what you have to say. Trying to make things that are so difficult to truly understand made out to be so simple shows more ignorance than your words can show.