Yeah I got the book (as well a few others) to give me a bit of advice really and of course I wouldn't wonder round like a complete b**** but I would take it with a pinch of salt, which I think is the intention. I'm too nice to turn into a complete b**** anyway, but I think I definitely need to respect myself more and not put up with certain things. For instance, I shouldn't have taken my ex narc back the FIRST time, but he was very good at the wooing stuff and told me how much he wanted to marry me, have children with me etc. I thought 'well everyone deserves a second chance' and I think deep down a part of me was scared that nobody else would want me, so I settled - not the right attitude I know. However, hindsight is a great thing.

I have internet dated quite a bit and it's how I met my ex, but they seem attracted to me and we have a few dates and then for whatever reason they give me the old 'it's not you, it's me' cobblers. I think most of them have been just in it for fun.

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