Again, posting only to try and be helpful - but I'm going to be blunt because I want to be clear, not because I want to be mean.
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Originally Posted by Only_Human1983
How do you mean? I need to work on myself you mean? I do know I need to more chilled out and see a therapist. I am working on that.
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This, yes. Look, you about had a meltdown over this last night. You posted a reply to me at 9:16pm psych central time - and then another post at 9:20pm, and then another post at 9:27pm... you weren't responding to anyone you were just reiterating how lonely you felt, how you didn't have what you wanted and asking what was wrong with wanting that.
I get it - this is super important to you and you are floundering in the sea of life trying to figure out how to get out of this trap that you are in. You keep saying that people aren't understanding you and you know what, maybe you're right - but here's the thing:
Desperate people do desperate things. You say that you're not looking for just 'any guy' but I'm firmly of the opinion that your standards are dropping the more desperate you get. Not because I know you - but because it's human nature. It's like looking for a job when you're unemployed and let's say, right out of college. You start looking, but don't want a job that's beneath you. The longer you go without a job, the less jobs you start thinking of as 'beneath you'. Same way with looking for a relationship partner.
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Originally Posted by Only_Human1983
I just feel really lonely in how I'm feeling and that nobody understands. I cried so much last night and yet the next day I have to carry on like everything is fine, because nobody wants to be around a depressed woe is me person as Chippermonkey pointed out
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Love looks grand and you want your slice of the pie. I get that. And you know what, true love
is grand. But a lot of what passes for love is miserable. So let me ask you a question before I say anything more. What is love to you?