Sorry, when I was talking about the affair etc I was referring to what your friend said about saying their partner had gone off with their best friend, I wasn't referring to you and your wife.

You sound like a dream man and very supportive to your wife which is hard to come by. It's wonderful that you have both been there for each other.

I've struggled to find someone having depression as I think come the finish its hard to hide and I think my ex narc thought I was too much like hard work. I think this is all why I fear ending up alone and lonely because I know I have major flaws and even people on here get frustrated with me and I'm defensive and sensitive. The list goes on and I just hate myself

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