Seriously this is how I found the T I've had for 4 years who is amazing.
I googled "therapist, nearest city to me"
I rejected everyone without a doctoral degree and all the male therapists.
The remaining people I looked up whether they dealt with my main issues and isolated the 6 who seemed to.have the most appropriate areas of specialty

Then I stared at the names and picked two to email. One person emailed back but I didn't like the way they wrote it, kind of cold. They suggested I make an appointment.
Current T wrote back with a more laid back attitude and suggested a phone call first to see if I felt comfortable with her style. I did , so we set up an appointment.

I feel like I hit the lottery. I can't imagine there is another T within driving distance that I would work so.well with.