Avalen, attraction and sex and two different things. You can be attracted but not have sex so that does not make you gay or bi. Everyone has wondered from time to time what it would be like. I have learned to be comfortable with my own company, and if someone special were to be in my life then if it developes fine. If not it is a blessing to have another friend. We tend to get into trouble when we look at people as sexual beings and not persons of value. Think about this and it might help you with the fantasizing. Ask yourself is this experimentation or boredom? And is it worth the risk to do so? Anyhow, being content with what we have often cures the roaming mind. tc