Cashart10, yes i have been stalked, by my neighbor. He stalked me when my spouse and i were together. He also stalked me when she left in crisis. It got so bad i took the love letters and the postcards and gave them to my therapist to put in my file incase something were to happen to me. Then he says that he is pretty much over the infatuation would i like to be his friend again? I gave his a disbelief look and walked to my bldg and into my apt. I don't have anything to do with him anymore. Any proof that you may have copy and give to a therapist to put on file, and it will be dually noted. tc