I've found one every way possible, including the phone book. A couple of the personal references left me scratching my head, wondering how in the world they could have gotten rave reviews from the people I'd talked to (and one where all of us were in hysterics over how bad our shared therapist was). I found my therapist in a convoluted way, and feel very fortunate. She doesn't advertise on psychology today or any other site and does not take my insurance.