Ennui, I am sorry you feel inferior for being a virgin. I am sorry you feel like crap because you are not taken. My best friend he is 64 and a virgin. I know a lot of older people who are and their happiness is in themselves not for what they can give or do for others. Sex is not going to make you feel any better about yourself, it has to be from within. If it is that important and you want to throw it away with anyone then you are telling me you think you are trash and needed to be treated as such. I choose not to believe that. tc