First of all, kudos to you for being a supportive and understanding husband. I was forced to take time off due to my MI and at first my bf and I were ok but after almost a year and drowning in bills I HAD to get a job just about a month ago and I struggle everyday! Is your wife on medication or seeing therapy for her issues and anxiety? The only thing keeping me sane on the job is my meds right now. If you can afford it then put her mental health first and get her some help. These are legitimate and very real issues that she deals with. I sure wish I had more time to deal with my **** before I got this job. I already had a panic attack and had to leave early once. Nothing feel worst than feeling incompetent at your work. Especially when you have no other options.

Continue your support and talk to her about seeking help if she isn't already. That's about all I have stress right now!