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Old Jan 10, 2016, 12:06 AM
Yismymindblank12 Yismymindblank12 is offline
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8. Sex is the reason why you’re taking a cab to this douchebag’s apartment at 4 a.m. Sex is the reason why you bought those $200 jeans. Sex is the reason why you ordered a salad instead of a burger. Sex is the reason why you’re still dating this person, even though you know you’ll never be able to love them. See that? Therein lies the difference between sex and love. Sex drags things out that should’ve been dead a long time ago. Love, on the other hand, kills everything quickly.

I found this online. This relates to me exactly. This is why I separate love and sex. I'm not stupid about it. I am highly misunderstood as some perverted man ***** or someone whose trying to impose themselves. Yes it only appeared that way once because I was drunk and it was a bizarre occasion never happened before and it was highly embarrassing for me. I don't know how to respond to this person. I'm a piece of **** for killing a potential relationship with her friend for saying something so stupid.

Reality blows. Like sex is crap because the reality sucks because I couldn't enjoy it like most people and I don't understand everything myself about my own. I know a lot, but not a small fraction because I'm told I'm not good enough all the time so what am I supposed to say to that?
I get rejection sucks and I dealt with it before even at my best and worst, but man the women I've encountered are so judgmental and if you don't look a certain way they'll to you how ****** you are either being "nice" or "not so nice" to everything and it's gross distasteful and I rather had a flat out no over that.

This shouldn't be this hard, but I really don't feel like I should date someone to get laid more that's just wrong, but youth today logic's gone some people want love and use sex for love and some people use love for an excuse to get more sex interchangeably. Why can't just people make up their mind and just do it when they feel like it's right instead of being so worried about all this and that. I'm just sick of being the minority in this and being judged as being not loyal and loose over assumptions of things I never did, while I'm single too from people who were strangers who became somewhat friends or I thought close friends. I feel like a ****** person for ever wanting it. This thirsty guys stuff or this girls a slut. All the shame being put on both sides like stop.. you make sex a miserable chore than something fun and don't get me started on the guys who make excuses about contraception I know personally who just knock up people to feel they tagged a girl. I seriously want to punch every idiot who feels so egotistically self entitled to other people's bodies and lives as property. I don't act that way to get laid, but you know who cares.