A variety of reasons. It just felt like the thing to do. I do push guys away. I just feel like I want space now. He was at my place for over 12 hours. I didn't expect him to stay that long but didn't want to be rude. Plus,we went a little further sexually then i had wanted. I just don't want the dynamics to change either where i end up constantly waiting around on him and I think space is healthy for both parties so things don't get like that. He also said in the text asking if i want to come over and i don't. He kind of knows my anxiety issues,too but he probably doesn't really understand them. Next time we go out,i probably want to do something out,out. I'm just still kind of processing things,too. It sucks. I feel like i'm playing games now but i don't know what to do. I do want to date him. I don't want to rush into seeing someone all the time. I never do that. I rather just see him next weekend. Like,talk during the week and if all goes well with us not getting into another argument,then have another date. Since we had drinks the first time,then hung out at my place the 2nd,maybe something different like coffee,food,or a movie,or an activity like an art gallery or something. That would be what i want if things went 100% to my ideal. So,idk. I'm just processing things and trying to have no expectations. I figure also since we were in my neighborhood this time,and a half way point the first time,that next time i'd maybe be willing to do something in his neighborhood just to mix it up,and keep things fresh.