it's definitely a tough boat to be in. I have a hard time on the in between of not too feminine and not to masculine. I wear a lot of female dress shirts with a tanktop underneath and a few buttons unbuttoned. I feel like it's a good mix for me anyway. Other than that. My workplace wants you to wear business casual but it's cold in our building so everyone wears hoodies anyway lol. So no problem in the end anyway.

I decided to be a contractor mainly because of the overtime. Getting paid to work extra is nice and since I don't have much of a social life or pattern it's nice to be busy and making money. Makes me feel productive lol.

Best of luck!