Yes,I agree with the above poster. You have to value yourself first, and if you do not, you will allow other people to use you. If you feel you are overweight, you can begin to lose the weight. I doubt you are ugly! I f elt ugly as a teen.....skinny as a rail, bump in nose, frizzy hair and growing up in poverty and abuse. Guess what....that all changed as I grew up. What about yourself do you feel that is ugly? If you decide to have sex with just anyone.....you probably will not feel better. Sex should be shared between people who love one another; I lost my virginity at 19, and wish I had waited. Getting into counseling might help you.

If you like and respect yourself, you won't allow yourself to hook up with just anyone. If you choose to work on your self-esteem, and get to a place where you have good boundaries, you will learn to make good choices. I hope you will do that.