I agree with the others

My mom and sister are bad when it comes to money. My mom is almost 70 years old and still has no control on how much she spends.

I think she is mad that my husband and I can take vacations have a savings etc and she does not. We struggle like everyone else but we no longer have credit cards and once we paid off my truck we still made the payments but to our savings account. It took me along time to convince my husband to do that but once he saw the balance going up he was on board with it. If I am to sick to cook and we don't have money that week to eat out then we eat can soup.

When my grandmother passed and they sold her house my mom wanted to buy it but she needed help from one of her siblings. My uncle made her sign a contract that she had 5 years to pay him back. She signed but did not talk to him for awhile.

If possible see if the back east company will still hire him and get away from your mom. I know your hate the east coast but while he is working you can find some kind of trade you can do and then look for a job else where but you need to get away from your mom

It's going to ruin your relationship with your boyfriend. What she is doing is wrong but she does not get it. Getting away from her does not mean you don't love her I am sure you do.

My sister and I will be left with nothing when my mom dies. Nothing but bills and a house that she paid way to much for. Heck I even has we speak am paying for my funeral because with preplanning I save over 50% we will end up paying full pop for my mom because she will not even think about preplanning

Make a budget and stick to it. Always pay yourself first which means even if you can only put $5 a paycheck into your savings account then put that $5 away it will grow and you will be able to add to it. If you need help with a budget just ask

Good luck