I think that's a good part of stability and then the emotional is another part of stability that you can strive for?

Congrats on being substance free, that is def a HUGE part of a stable life and building a foundation.

When I was sober for the 8 years, it was almost like I invited 'chaos', still wanting to keep the childhood drama going and going. I picked the worst people to date. Hoping for better emotional sobriety this time. Getting off the Wellbutrin will hopefully be helpful for me and staying sober. I need to learn to keep life simple, be grateful and live moment to moment.