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Originally Posted by scar12346
Oh I so know what you are going through. Honestly is better to get no response than "Because I can, I am the oldest, I do what I want" Everyone in the system knows how bad drinking and drugs can get for us. The paranoia and depression heighten and it gives the littles anxiety. -Scar
Your part is doing it because he/she/they want something to be in control with. Thou this is not the reason that I am doing it, it sure might be the reason that they are doing so. Give them a job. A hobby, some time for them. Wear something that they would want. It might also be connected with your past. Maybe that part is born a drunk, like me. If so, don't fight them. Explain to them how much it is important for you to not get that drunk. Maybe next time give them regulations on how much they can drink. It's entirely to you what you do. -Waidth
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I can have a glass of wine or a beer and be done with it. This part is younger, maybe in the teens. The other day he/she wanted to have a glass of wine. All day he/she was thinking about getting home and having wine with dinner. When we got home, I walked past the refrigerator and suddenly he/she opened the door grabbed the wine bottle and drank out of it. I haven't drank out of a wine bottle since I was in my teens. The desire was deep and driven. Without a thought he/she opened the refridgator and drank the wine. That feeling of desire and control frighten me. It is a feeling I would sometimes have regarding sex. (years ago). This feeling of needing to have the drink that moment and acting on it. We talked among-est ourselves stating how disturbing that action was and how we don't want to be out of control. It was a feeling I thought I had resolved. I actually avoid dating because I am concerned that sex would set off this feeling. If we are all better off not drinking, doing drugs and having indiscriminate sex than why can this part understand that? Why try to pull us back into the dark.