[QUOTE=Aviza;4866538]My self-esteem level is fine for the most part, but then the reality of my situation sometimes brings it down.[/QUOT

i think i already spoke to you. but if your reality sets in and your not comfortable with your situation, i dont believe that you have met your potential of your self-esteem. For ex) me personally if things are rough, im still comfortable where im at. sounds crazy right? Lost my job and live with my parents, still happy i know im going to get out of it. THATS CONFIDENCE for your self-esteem. Would you rather me say to myself, man this sucks idk about this situation, idk if im going to do this on my own. There aint no confidence there muahahh