well what did your fiance say or do about all of this...i mean...didnt he stop her when she tried to lie about you raping him? Didnt he say anything to his mother...from your story he seems like he wasnt a big part.....in sticking up for your or against you...even if he was in the army....he woulda been allowed to come home for a family emergency...my bf is in the Marine Corp and when i was in a car accident he came to see me ....and if he couldnt come home he could have phoned you.....and is this why you two split? Maybe im asking the wrong questions....maybe thats a whole different story but i dont see why he didnt protect you....