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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
Is it possible that the other moms don't click with you, for whatever reason, so they don't want to arrange playdates with your daughter because they don't want to do the mom talk that often comes with it? If you seem over-eager or pushy about the playdates, it may be turning the moms off. They may be under the impression that you really want to chat and spend time with them, and that's what they aren't interested in. I've heard that some moms can be clicky and only want their kids to play with the other kids whose moms they really like and want to spend time with.
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It is very common for women to think that other women want to be their BFF. It is a delusion.
Men don't think this way. That's why the Dads seem easier to get along with.
Although it may seem pushy to simply ask for playdates, if I didn't ask at all, people here would say "you need to make an effort and be assertive".
Also, I find it strange that somebody would be so horrified of making casual conversation? I am introverted, and even I can make casual conversation with people.