My t and I are very similar and it's very easy for t to understand me. We understand each other very well. Part of it is we come from the same culture and have lots in common. Also I am never hesitant to speak what i think and feel. I am also very straight forward and direct ( unintentionally blunt at times- some of it is cultural and some just my personality). So no no one including my t said this to me.

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