Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem completely stressed out. You have a problem and you would like to fix it as soon as possible. I know the feeling - been there, done that... And got even more hurt.

Take a step back, take a breath. It is going to be okay. You have to learn to live your life when your ex-husband and his family are out of the picture. This is the new life now, you shouldn't worry about them because they are not important anymore. And it doesn't matter what they think about you, because their opinion is not important.

I know it's hard.