Uhm why are you posting things publicly? Post privately and he can't see them. In a sense you're inviting him into your life. No I'm not victim blaming, rather I'm pointing out that posting things publicly on the internet gives free reign to anyone and everyone to read it. (Hence why I laugh at those who get mad on Twitter/Facebook etc and make tweets/posts claiming that people are staking their feed/timeline. They put it out there, so don't get mad that people are actually reading it. Privacy measures exist for a reason. Re: People who have actually made these comments on social media.