You seen from your last post you are in a better place emotionally, im glad to hear of that. Break ups are so hard especially when there is a family involved, and the sudden feeling of doing it all by yourself seems overwhelming, like everything is happening all at once. But you WILL get there. You was already smart and brave enough to cut him out of your life, the rest will be a breeze. Have faith in yourself, one year from now you will look back and see how much you have moved forward.

I was too in the same situation two year back. Difficult, I left with nothing. No house, car, money, all but a washing machine (which he took 3 weeks to release to me) and my baby girl, and a whole lot of nastiness and cruelty on his part even though it was an amicable split with no offences made on either side.

Hardship is something we cannot avoid in life. All we can do is learn to take our shoes off and dance in the rain!

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