Having similar goals is important. On one hand it is written that you didn't want to lose him. On the other hand he's looking to settle down and raise a family. It's written that you want your own place and to travel and work without sacrificing career.
Middle of '14 or '15, as far as meeting? If '15, it does seem soon, still. That could explain the overwhelming emotional reaction to this change. Why was he rushing for you to move in? Was it financial?

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