you do know exactly why she told you she is still single. She intended that to have an effect on you, and it did exactly that. If she was a wonderful gal to be with, don't you think some other guy would be with her? What do you think she's been doing for the last five years? This lady gets a kick out of turning men on. Don't be a sucker.

Men are hard-wired to like variety. This lady likes to play with that. Giving that up is the price you pay for having a happy home. Stop looking on facebook for info on her. She's not worth it.