Hi all,

I've been seeing my therapist for 9 months, was once a month but since September I have been going fortnightly.

We're doing schema therapy, which while it incorporates elements of CBT, goes much deeper. Therefore there is greater emphasis on the there spirit relationship.

Anywho, I'm in the middle of some intense transference. Once second it's positive/romantic, next it's negative. My therapist has encouraged me to call her between sessions if I'm struggling.

In fact she wrote me note saying to call her despite what my 'inner critic' says. However, that note was written before she was aware of the romantic feelings.

Our last session was a disaster, first time back since confessing to romantic feelings.

It's been a week and She's back in the office tomorrow. I feel like I really want to call her, otherwise I will be a wreck until our session next week.

However, I'm really worried that the calling between sessions, intense transference, and the romantic feelings will make me seem clingy.

I'm so scared that I will be seen as too needy, or that I will be referred on being deemed to risky.

Anyone else had these feelings before ?

Any advice?

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