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Originally Posted by rcat
I have another stance on this. There may be a perfectly legit reason the GF doesn't work. There may be the chance she can't. Perhaps she might actually want to desperately but that she has limitations of her own. Could it be possible she has depression or anxiety issues of her own that prevent holding down a job?
I myself can't work and nothing makes me angrier than to hear people infer I don't wish to.
I realize the majority of people out there make the rather negative assumption I am lazy and would rather sponge off the system than get a job.
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Great insights. On top of that,i don't see what's wrong if she just doesn't want to work. My bf when I was that age didn't require me to work. I just don't see what's wrong with someone choosing the relationship dynamics they want for themselves. I will note the downsides to that are that it can hinder growth for the woman because she then can end up not learning to become independent but the fact of the matter is,I just don't see what's wrong if she literally doesn't want to work. It's their relationship choice. If anything,i'd try and help her learn how to become independent despite not working that way no matter what she will be set up for herself.