Ok, so she's confirmed she had slept with this guy and she has feelings for him. It was just once and it isn't the reason for the end of our marriage. Now I know it wasn't just once, whether it was a full on affair over a long period I'm not sure. although I don't want to know details of what they did, I really want to know how long it's been going on and how many times they met. He lives 300 miles away so opportunity would be sparse but is it a case of the more I dig the more miserable it will make me or would I find closure in finding out the whole truth?
Our lives are entwined whether we like it or not with the 3 kids and I'm worried that every time I see her I will have this bitterness that she has not told me everything. I think I would respect her more if she did.
Has anyone else been in this situation and how did it make you feel if/when the full confession came?
Thanks for all the help and support, it really helps x

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