im not sure if he's doing it to make sure she's ok, he broke up with her in October 2014 so it's been a while and he has nightmares about the bad feelings he had during that break up. I'm just struggling to understand why as he didn't like talking about her to me so then it makes feel worried about our relationship and that then makes me upset and its stress he didn't need. I try to hide how it makes me feel but sometimes it's a bit much especially when hes feeling really low X X didn't want to come near me. I just want to understand so I can put my energy into supporting him and not making him feel guilty because I know guilt is one of the main issues here.