I get where you are coming from. Over my time in this lovely place, I have been trying my best to encourage others but have found that on many occasions I have fretted over my words. When words are written it is hard convey the range of emotions that accompany the thoughts. It not easy as 95% of what we are trying to say is non verbal. So much easier when you can see a person when they are speaking. It's easy to see them smile, frown, cry or nod their head in agreement or disagreement.

Please keep on posting. It will get better. (I had more to say but I over thought it. ).