Oh, btw, I was wrong about SS amount of income. He is actually only bringing in about 1400 mth. So they are living WAY above their means. Rent is 1000, car is 180, insurance is 200.

And no, they are not "old fashioned" where he wants her to be a stay at home mom/wife. Yes, she wants to be taken care of, but SS has repeatedly told her she needs to get a job. But, he isn't making it number one priority, so I will let them worry about it.