no suggestions really but i can emphathize. i've all but given up on arranging play dates with anyone. i think a lot has changed with how people make friends and subsequently how children make friends. when i pick up my daughter from preschool the parents really don't socialize much. the only way i manage to talk to anyone outside of my family seems to be on forums such as this. it's sad. but in some ways easier because having social anxiety, communicating through writing and email and texts vs phone calls is easier. but idk. i hope when she starts kindergarten she has more friends.