Have you ever asked friends how you come across to them? A lot of times, what really attracts a person to you is personality. A nice smile, friendly (but not too friendly, if that makes any sense) attitude, easygoing, etc. Those are the types of characteristics that really grab a person's interest. Of course, other than physical attributes.

Try not to worry so much about being too ugly. Sometimes, a girl can be too pretty too! It's true ~ a lot of guys become overwhelmed and choose not to push themselves, with what they perceive to be a larger chance of being pushed away. When guys are older and more experienced, they become a lot more open with a wide range of women. The fact that girls typically mature more quickly than boys (at first) also goes along with girls seeing guys that are older.

This message is to give you a little better understanding of how a guy's mind typically works in the late teens. So, please don't worry that you're simply not good enough! There are so many possible reasons why the guys haven't yet spoken up to you. I know that you're anxious.... I have felt lonely and desperate for a man's love before. But sex does NOT lead to love. It took me a *very long time* to finally understand those words and accept them to be true. It is painfully true!

While you have specifically stated that you aren't looking for love, you're merely looking for sex, have you asked yourself "why"? Why are you looking for sex? Because young men typically don't have very much experience ~ and they tend not to last very long. They also aren't very good at picking up on what a girl likes/dislikes or wants/needs. I would seriously advise you to take that into account as well. So, if you're just wanting a guy to bring you to orgasm, I hate to tell you this, but, it's going to be a while. You may want to consider buying a vibrator, if you haven't already.

Anyone care to back me up or disagree with me on what I've stated? I'm just sharing the things that I've learned in my life. I didn't have my first orgasm until I was around 23 or so (even though I'd been active since 16). Something worth thinking about. Many men and women use vibrators to bring her to completely to orgasm. I think that this topic is one that a lot of people like to avoid, in regular life. They still want to act as though you meet your true love in High School, go to college and get a career then get married & live happily ever after. Unfortunately, that's just not our reality. I wonder if it ever really was?

Hope that I've given you some things to think about, in a positive and realistic way. You do deserve a good man. And he will come around one of these days, try not to push yourself in a dangerous way. okay? ((((hugs))))) to you!