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Old Jan 13, 2016, 06:04 AM
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I notice guys always say they're more experienced then they are and you can always tell they lie because they'll give some ridiculous number that is obviously fake. The more experienced guys always say they have no idea. So,here's some signs i've gotten and am not sure about.
-claimed to have had sex just a week ago,and that the girl only wanted sex back on our first date. it just sounded so fake to me. maybe it wasn't. but,still. it just seemed like when i randomly asked him the question before our date,like he was looking to fluff up his experience to seem more masculine.
-seems to have some ideas of doing things that comes more from being told that's how you do things vs actual experience.
-very clingy and rushing for involvement.
-very sexually forceful despite being a very polite guy normally
-kisses were a little bit sloppy. not enough to be an issue,but that to me i would take as a sign of inexperience
-seems to want alcohol to feel comfortable
-when he was fingering me,this is embarrassing to say and overshare..sometimes he wasn't doing it quite right. like he was hitting the wrong spot and going rough while doing it so it hurt. this to me screams inexperience.
-he wore fragrance. have no idea if this is a sign or not. but,i could smell that he had put some kind of cologne on.
-after kissing for literally 2 seconds,he went straight to trying to finger me which shocked me. again,i would think a more experienced guy would kiss and build up to more and more little by little
-he has said i'm more experienced then him with relationships,at least.
-lately,most of the guys i've attracted are more on the inexperienced side for some reason.
-seems very very excited to be in a relationship with me. kept following up on it when i brought it up.
-just a feeling i get
ways he does seem experienced include little things he says like how he claimed he had sex with a girl though it felt like a lie,and little comments like that. Also,he has a very peverted side towards me in text and i can't help but wonder what makes him think he can get away with some of that,unless he's been getting away with it with others? That,and he never really seems nervous on dates. He's hard to figure out. He is attractive and dresses well and knows how to be chivalrous but has a slight nerd-ish side look to him,too.

at times,he looks like he is very confident but i know he's told me he was taught before he moved to my city to go after what he wants,and he's always followed that ever since. I honestly prefer that he is less experienced. It'd let me know what i'm working with and i have this belief that if a guy is less experienced,they'd be less likely to cheat.