Venting is good....

just asking... cause I have a 22 year old son that I worry about.. that it's good to have someone in your life that does worry and care about you...

I can see where having to rely on someone for transportation must be grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.. have had to do that too....
And being "stuck" in the middle where your dad and mom - well your dad blaming everything on your mom is also very difficult...

The part about " you aren't doing anything to help yourself" and "listening to people that are trying to help you"?

Did he tell you what he thought you should do?

And what "people" are you not listening to that would help you? and what are they suggesting?

Maybe you could say more about that - it might help us to understand more of what they are thinking and where the "mis-connect" is happening between you guys...

In the meantime... ((((hugs))...