I am hurt with my boyfriend. Last month he asked if we bad to see each other every week. On Friday he called me at the last minute on his way here letting me know he's on his way. That's the only notice I had. I knew he was coming Friday but he never said what time. It made me mad him calling saying he's on his way. I had to run around at the last minute to get ready. Twice he's done that last minute bull crap. I finally told him yesterday how I felt. Friday he was here only two hours. As he left he said he thought about taking me out to lunch. Then he said he wanted to wait until he got paid to come here. That really made me mad. He has only taken me out once for lunch. We've been together over a month. He never spends money on me. I do not give him sex. This week he's spending his days off with a friend. I have seen him only two hours this month. He never calls me he sends me usually just one text a day. I am tired of this. He never wants to go out on dates he doesn't call me and he doesn't seem to want to see me. So why on earth does he want a girlfriend?