You mentioned in your first post on this thread that she was "baby bipolar (?)". Sounds like she is a bit more than "baby". All the threats & the fact that she knows the mafia.....that is all part of the bipolar. She is ill & without you realizing that everything she says is part of her illness, you end up believing what she says.

It is a very good thing that you were able to escape being with her....& hope that you can look back at it with some understanding that you did nothing wrong & that her family is being controlled by her illness. Maybe they don't even understand what is going on, or maybe they are dealing with their own bipolar issues.

Given what you have gone through with that family already, I would not even consider going back to your x-fiance. It sounds like all the mafia threats have absolutsly so basis in reality, but if you get involved with him & his family, you could end up trapped in a situation that you won't want in the future. Sounds to me like you got out of there just in time to keep your own self sane & not get trapped into the unreal life that they all are living.

Take care of yourself.....stay away.....& real up on the bipolar mental illness. That may give you some understanding & insight into what you were going through.

You are the one that is just fine.....stay that way,
Debbie