Also, there is one thing other thing that connects itself to my distress about his porn watching. I've tagged along with him twice now on occasions where we were going out and his boss had called to ask him to do a small errand. Each time he introduced me to the women he worked with he made jokes about them having been really into him before I came and old girlfriends with them. My feelings on this have nothing to do with my possessive nature. I find this purely offensive and disrespectful, not just to me and our relationship but to the women he introduced me to and I've argued with him about this but I've never gotten around to outright stating this fact. He also used to make jokes about girls falling all over him at his work places, he works as an assistant contractor, but he's stopped now. I do not give my loyalty just so it can be offended like that.