C2015 I am glad that your mother's marriage has worked out. Even so, when you look at the statistics, the experiences of many couples, I think you will find that the odds of having a lasting, happy marriage are much better when the couple has a longer time of dating and getting to know each other.
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And why is he spending the weekend with a friend and not you?
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You could ask him this.
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So why on earth does he want a girlfriend?
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You could ask him this as well.
For best results, though, don't ask him these questions when you are mad. If you are mad, he will withdraw and defend.
Instead, ask in a civil, kind way. Express genuine curiosity and interest in his thinking.