I agree with, Chipper I think it was, who said your morals are so different that you're going to make each other miserable. I dont view porn as a big deal, might watch it once or twice a year. If someone told me they viewed it as cheating, I'd probably laugh too, not because they're upset but just because I view it as such a light thing. Different viewpoints. Now if I had experience dating someone who had been addicted to porn and it got in the way of the relationship, my view point would likely be way way different. It's hard to change other people, if you want this relationship with this guy to work, it is more likely you will have to change your views on porn. Thats not me saying you should do that, just its way more likely you'll be able to change yourself than you are able to change him. If you really view it as cheating though, I think the best bet would be to move on and find someone who fits better with you.