I don't think what another person looks at on the Internet is anyone's business, but their own.
However, knowing a guy is attracted to porn would just be a huge sexual turn-off to me. It's been my experience that guys who regularly consume porn are not that great in the love-making department. They are often trying to compensate for that.
I think it reveals something negative about a man's attutudes toward sex, women and intimacy for a guy to be fascinated by porn. For a couple to rent a porn movie, now and then, to watch together can be fun. But I think that porn becomes boring to most people after awhile. A guy who spends a lot of time on it would be a person who doesn't have enough other interests to occupy his mind. Someone like that would strike me as boring, as well as creepy.
But, if this is what seizes his attention, you are probably not going to change that in him. He'll just get sneakier about it.
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