As another 17 year old, I completely understand. This is probably one of the most stressful years of our lives. We are about to hit adulthood and have a wave of responsibility thrown at us. We feel as though we have to have done something reckless or wild for our teen years to be "successful". Many of us haven't even gotten out license yet and society expects us to be out there causing drama like stereotypical movie teenagers. You haven't wasted your teen years. Teens now just don't have much wiggle room.

As for characters, don't even get me started!~ I have been a maladaptive daydreamer since day 1! I find Joy and inspiration from my daydreams and characters. I love imagining them in certain scenarios and drawing them! As for socializing, why not use them? I love role playing with my characters with friends on Instant Messaging and Forum sites and I highly recommend it for someone looking for an outlet!

Also, I've been in a few very short-lasting relationships because it's not my thing. I don't enjoy dating and you shouldn't feel bad about not dating at all! It takes time to find someone you're comfortable with!

As we head into adulthood and college and move about, a lot of doors will close for us, and even more will open! Your characters and escapes are a good thing! Learn to love them and bring them into the real world. They may not be physical, but they are very real to you and help you cope. Draw them, write them, make them in a dress up game! Take your time and find the right person to love. Most people don't find anyone until their mid-20's. It's not a rush.