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Old Aug 23, 2007, 01:06 PM
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Do you think it would help, or would it just make things worse? I'm just not sure about anything anymore. He already has an agenda for what he wants to talk about on Monday (which I don't like... gah).

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Tough beans for him. It's your therapy. You get to choose the agenda for the session. Just tell him you'd like to talk about the phone call. Only you know best what you need to heal, and if his agenda isn't what you need to talk about next session, then reject it or postpone it for another day or leave it for the end of your session, after you have talked about the topics of importance to you. For example, if he tries to push his agenda, you could say, "first I'd like to talk about the phone call, then if we have time, maybe we could return to that." Good luck.
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