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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Me too, not seeing rapist and abuser evidence, must be missing something.
Boy I've known some turkeys. I relate to this like it is nothing... I agree, kiss and tell is an immature game to play. Better not to ask guys how many sex partners they've had or tell them about yours. I'm not saying never or lie, but just not in general.
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I didn't read rapist/abuser, either. Maybe because, as you say, I'm not familiar with the history here.
To the OP: from what you describe, I just get an image of an overly nervous guy. If he's lying about past relationships, it's probably because he feels as if he needs an ego rush.
It sounds like your friend is nervous and that you're a bit overly critical. I can't stand cologne on myself but I've known a lot of perfectly wonderful guys who wear cologne as if it's part of regular grooming.
Lord. If you're looking for a good relationship and if you're attracted to the guy, keep seeing him. I just don't see the red flags that others perceive. I agree that his fast dive for the goodies and ineptitude once there speaks to inexperience, but it doesn't cry rapist to me.
Nervous and inexperienced and trying not to be either.
Dating. Hunh. I had my last date in 1999, just before going into hospital. Hope you make the best of it.
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