She often unfortunately told me many times she is always forgotten and no one cares, right after I spent a lot of time and energy on her. Of course that will trigger feelings in me. It's like someone cooler and someone with unlimited energy should come help her instead. I might say but someone just helped you, you aren't forgotten. But she still says she is. And I might spend time with her just to be told no one ever spends time with her and that she has no friends. I say what about me? She tells me a real friend would spend all days on her, not a day here and there. I'm still her friend because I understand she doesn't understand I have needs too. She can't picture anyone else having a different life or different needs. But I'm not some supernatural being, I do have emotion too.