So.. Recently, as I see how some of my trans friends act and progress, I don't feel trans enough. This might seem ridiculous or stupid, but I'm genderfluid and my chest size and body shape don't allow me to wear masculine clothes or bind comfortably on my male days, and I'm a bit too chubby to pass as androgynous. I could never pass as anything but female, body wise. So I wear a lot of normal tees and jeans on any gender day. It's gotten me into this hole where, because I don't "look" or "act" trans, no one even bothers to ask my gender that day, or call me by my preferred name. I feel kind of left out. It's like I want to be in the loop where my friends call me by my preferred name and gender, but I feel like every time I try I get veto'd and they continue as if nothing happened.

Does anyone else have this problem? Because I'm a bit stuck.