I am really confused. Is this the same guy you said you thought was going to ask you to marry him? And you were planning on who invite to the wedding. Yet he only saw you two hours this month and never took you out and only sends one text a day and never calls plus spends weekends with friends .

Nothing in his behavior indicates the desire for serious relationship with you let alone marrying? That's not how guys who are that serious act.

What did you base idea of him marrying you on? It can't be his behavior towards you!

Also how old are you two? I thought you were very young. But if your parents were remarried nearly 30 years you have to be in your 30s at least? 30? He acts like much younger guy

Does your BF not work? Why can't he go to simple lunch?

Why your stepmom has his number already? He doesn't call you yet talks to your stepmom on the phone?

He might like to have a gf but he either wants to take it very slow ( which is fine) or wants very casual and undemanding. I would have a conversation with him what does he really want but I would abandon ideas that he is about to propose. It's way too eRly considering how he behaves.

Even if he does propose I don't suggest you accept as he doesn't even want to hang out with you! Plus he is too broke to eat simple lunch?

He might not be the best prospect for dating let alone marrying. You deserve so much better



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