You came in here as a new member with all the answers and the magic cure for depression. I don't think you realize that was annoying so no apology necessary for that. Some of us have tried to explain as gently and tactfully as we can that we've heard that before and that nobody has all the answers or any magic cure. Your suggestion that if we'd just choose to stop being depressed and focus on the positive and that if we didn't choose to do that due to the effort it takes was immature and thoughtless at best. Basically it was just hard to take you seriously because you don't even understand the questions/issues that you believe you have answers to. Just relax and stop trying so hard... if anyone needs you they know where to find you