Great responses here. I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I used to think a lot like you sometimes. I used to think the fact that I haven't had sex yet CLEARLY meant that I was undesirable and a failure, but that implies that sex is more important than anything else, which it really isn't. Even if you're really attractive, your energy and attitude, if it's cold and distant, can repels guys who fear getting rejected. Self-confidence is a huge part of what makes people attractive, not just their physical appearance.

But the base of this problem is not sex, believe it or not. It's about YOUR self-esteem. It's about a fundamentally flawed mental belief that what OTHERS think of you is more valid than what YOU think of yourself.

I'm sorry that you've been bullied a lot by others. That's hard to deal with, and it can be tough to get over. Just remember, though, that they only treated you that way because they were insecure and foolish, and why would you take THEIR opinions of you seriously anyway? Who are some dumb bullies to be the objective judges of your worth?

Only you can be the judge of your own worth.

You deserve to experience sex the RIGHT way, with the RIGHT kind of person. Have you ever sought out the more shy, nerdy kinds of guys? They might have a lot more in common with you than the average guys.

I have a video in my signature that's perfect for helping with low self-esteem issues. It's really helped me out a ton, and I hope it helps you out to. Just listen to even the first minute, it's great stuff.